Hi all, new member here

I'm having an issue with my '98 mk3 Golf GL 2.0 (manual), which I've heard/read is likely to be a fault with the fuel pump relay (engine sometimes stalls when coming to a stop).

My question is, does anyone know what part number I need, or even which relay (number or position) is the fuel pump relay? I've spoken to Autobarn, Repco, and a VW dealer, and none of them have yet been able to find the part number, even with my VIN as reference (I was especially surprised the dealer couldn't find it).

These things don't seem too expensive, I just want to pick one up and put it in so I can see if the problem stops. Any help would be much appreciated.

Thanks!
Ross

PS: if it helps I can provide the VIN here