Have found that the Tiguan ACC is not as accurate as my B7 Passat was. It would sit on selected speed anywhere, whereas the Tig varies by up to 2 up or down from setting.
Also dropping back from 110 to 80 for the large roadworks in our area it will whack the brakes on and slow you down really fast and quite dangerously if in traffic.. What i do is lightly apply some throttle and change it back to 80 and lightly lift my foot to override the setting. Much safer..Havent had your problem as once I get back to setting I just bump it up a couple and it goes there.
Depends on traffic conditions as it depends on what distance you have front assist set to as well. Mine is set to closest.
As Simon says if going higher it starts to accelerate immediately up to selected speed and you can fine adjust it while its doing it