I think the difference will be pushing ~10k for a full spec R v full spec S3 (taking into account discounting or no discount ie like for like in that regard).
It will therefore come done to personal circumstances and tastes as to whether the 10k is enough to justify the step up or not.
For me, I am happy with the extra ~10k (assuming it is about that).
I had a MK6 R on order about a year ago which fell through and since it was at the end of the line, I was unable to find another in the spec/colour I wanted.
In hindsight, I think it was a blessing in disguise for a few reasons.
- Firstly, I no need an auto/DSG as it will be the family car and the R on order was another manual ;)
- Whilst at the time I was happy with a fairly low spec R, since the new car will be a family car for myself and the wife, I want a full spec'd car with all the bells and whistles :)
- Coming from a MKV GTI, I've realised I definitely want something that feels nicer and more modern inside.. unfortunately IMO, the MK7 (GTI nor R) doesn't feel like a step up enough inside :(
- I am not bothered by the 18" wheels on the S3 and actually think that in my situation i'd rather 18" than 19"
So with that being said the S3 is a better package in for me in my situation. That is before taking into account the fact that there are incremental bits which the R just can't do/match.. like the much better sound system (B+O), LED lights, far superior Audi MMI, nicer sport seats, plus general nicer feel inside
(and I think it's a better looking car)
So in reality the ~10k is more like 5k and I/we can justify that.
Like I said earlier though, everyone is different (obviously) and with different tastes, preferences, priorities so congrats on your order Mikey1 and to anyone else who has a R on order or is thinking about getting one. I know if I was to rewind time a few years, I'd more than likely be buying the R (with 19" etc) than the S3!
Either way, they're both going to be a great buy and I think it's good we have fairly similar yet distinctly different cars in somewhat similar price ranges to chose from!