I am in my 3rd month of ownership of this car. I have not experienced any of the problems you mentioned (touch wood).
May I suggest that you take it to an independant mechanic specialising in VAG cars. You may be surprised that they may be able to diagnose the problems better than VW mechanics.
FWIW, the DSG behaviour you mentioned doesn't sound right. And you are right, you didn't buy the car to drive like Miss Daisy.
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