DSG thump into ODD gears..clutch needed?

[hypevw]

I have a 2015 Polo 6C1 81kw with gearbox code QHY 7 speed gearbox.

ISSUE
When I first start and put into D it takes approx 5secs before D1 shows on dash which is when I know 1st is selected and I can take off.

When I take off it is like someone dropping the the clutch in a manual as the car jolts forward. 1st to 2nd gear change is fine, but 2nd to 3rd jolts as well currently 105,000km owned since 70,000km had issue when I bought it.

ASSUMPTION
To me I just assume that the clutch that handles the odd gears is worn hence the delay in being applied.

QUOTED
I have had a quote from VW for the clutch kit from $1300AUD and Veale $921AUD (trade price).

RESEARCHED
I don't know the part number and thought through process of elimination I could find the clutch kit on the web get the part number and then search around for online prices but after on an off searching over multiple days I still can't work out what clutch it is wet/dry?.

ps I am mechanic so looking to replace myself.

[kamold]

7 speed dry clutch.
0AM198142AA Repair set for multi-coupling Petr. engine is around $1300ex from VW.
I haven't ever done any work with DQ200s (thankfully) but there must be aftermarket options available eg:
D141910K - DUAL CLUTCH DRUM ASSEMBLY (0AM/DQ200) | Transmissions