Thanks for the great responses guys;
I agree the 6spd wet box appears to be more reliable than their 7spd. I think the biggest put off was as Parabul stated - losing track of which gear you are in when hitting the twisties - I was either redlining or bogging down when trying to flip through the paddles.
The main reason I was going for DSG was the awesome launch control - nothing worse than bogging or overrevving a launch in a slip lane lol, also love the cruise factor in Drive, and the other reason was so the Mrs could drive it (scary I know).
Is anyone aware of any issues with the manual boxes? If it is as sweet as the box in my MPS I would be a happy man!