Get them to give you the $990 back and you'll organise it yourself, they should do this.
The parrot is crap, absolute crap and a complete ripoff for the $900-$1000 that the dealers are charging for this.
I've just installed the proper factory bluetooth that integrates perfectly into the car and uses both the MFD and the RNS510 as a touchscreen, offers excellent voice commands (that work) and great sound for less then $600.
If you're handy and can follow instructions you can install it yourself, if not take it to someone who can install it and pay them a few hundred. Your dealer should be able to install it for you and do the necessary code changes but they may be hesitant when they can charge you $2000 for the same thing.
I'll be putting up information on my kit install in the next week or so but I purchased it from this guy.
http://www.octavia-vrs.com/technical/bluetooth.html